Everyone helps me, I am a 23-year-old girl, male friend heel I together year old, our understanding included half year, is at his understanding in uncle's house, he is very good to me in each aspect, can see him to like me very much.But I unexpectedly know there that he has been already got married in a year ago from his uncle, also the half year old is big of kid, his uncle tells me.His matrimony may be a young and on impulse knot of, the second day after he gets married.He unexpectedly starts fighting to make a divorce with his wife, over a year, their husband and wife's feelings lives really not good.He usually just goes home very late, even can not go home for a few months, his uncle also says that their marriages don't grow.Because get married just in a little while, the kid is still small, the different idea of his parents divorces now.This time that he knows with me inside, never lift him have been already got married, have been concealing.Until one day I am unbearable, the personally asks him, he admitted, he says he really is married.But Be married again how, the another man makes an affairs after getting married that is that the diagram is generous with fresh, but he be not so.He is to look for a true love, of so hasn't been telling me, want to wait until an another matter industry stability, otherwise how go to and give an account with my parents.And he also fears my parents connects to can not stand his marriage history and fear that I connect to can not stand he has a kid, he makes me remember, he loves of the person is me.

After finishing listenning to, I am very depressed, the heart is very painful, how should doing not know accept him.How should I do?The problem adds:

He and his wife are first single Yun, repair a ticket after getting on the car first, as for why just the matrimony greatly makes a divorce, and after getting married a year feelings have been still not good up to now, affirmation is have the causal, this is that all his house relativeses are obvious to all.
If I accept the fact that he gets married, I am to isn't the name matches the reality of small three?

The best answer girl's son wants to cherish himself/herself, I don't suggest that you accept present condition.If you have been maintaining present condition, you are the third party in the outsider eyes.Because outsider really don't know you and his feelings, don't know an antinomy between their husband and wifes as well.

This matter you had better discuss well with him.Probably he really loves you, can continue will make you sink into an antinomy like this painful medium.And the kid is after all innocent, because your 3 people's affair, the future influence to an innocent person, your in the mind will also very much obliged.

But don't suggest you go to and his wife talk.No matter they have what antinomy, want always depend they they's solution.If you seek his wife, on the contrary may make the affair whatter a mess.

If you also believe him and rather identify him to exactly be worth unworthy you worry so.Give him a term, for example 3 years, in 3 years he can not also give you a feelings environment of stability, a bay for hasing peace of mind, not equal to give up how?You will also put on the hall that the beautiful wedding dress steps on a wedding, not discommode "understanding lover" of do-it-yourself others.

Hope you can good good consideration, not want for loving impulse, certainly also not want to love anxiety for the sake of one pain and sufferings.Wishing you is happy.Encourage!